The best method of reaction on violation at the not conquered heart is a reaction of force, reaction of indifference: yes, I see that you violate, and to this question we, undoubtedly, will return weeks through two, maybe, you have the reasons for violation, but we will go back to it later. And, certainly, there can not be a not good-natured tint in this intonation — ah, pet, well wait a little, will get to you! Not spiteful — I am rancorous, be careful! Only indifference of machine which, when will understand thoroughly, then can punish, and can, that less probably, even and to forgive. Conquering a heart, it is impossible not to punish. If not to punish, an inferior, movable the natural desire of approaching to the center of attraction, will forget about a measure. He will lose by a main exchange of inferior is a willingness to execute an order, yet knowing nothing about his maintenance. The not punished inferior will aim to execute those orders which are instrumental in his advancement in a center only, and will avoid non-fulfillment other. The same generating an order at which and other inferiors will dig in your orders, as in commodities in a cheap shop, choosing most on your own suitable for implementation. Punished only that, who felt punished, but not that who punished.

Rewarding and punishing, not cheat

Rewarding and punishing, not cheat and not forgive.

Rewarded and punished not man, but his act. It is possible not to love rewarded, it is possible to love punished, but it is impossible to change decisions.

Everybody is not alike on other. Everybody has the world. World with the own laws. World, where he is the unique itself judge. Judge higher and final. And where he — main defendant. And judge this, in most cases enough kind to the defendant. Even if and unkind, then in any event, has enough time, thoroughly to go deep in the least details and nuances. Even a mien or intonation, motion of eyes or easy smell, is material proof for him. Even if many years passed.

It is needed only to begin to reward or punish a man, but not his acts, as that hour this higher judge will take the matter of this man on a revision. And it can you even and not to report about his results. And we will never win a competition with this judge in the care of consideration of business. Wishing to give a promise about a reward we think not only about that, what reward is deserved by this act but also about that, whether we will be able, indeed, to act up to promise even in case that other people will feel strongly about. Those people on which the decision of question depends also.

In respect of forgiveness.

A war-lord chopped a head the friend for misconduct. Chopped and cried.

Chopped and cried! Here necessary formula! And chopping is necessary. It is impossible not to chop, if an act requires that. And crying is necessary guilty. Sympathy and punishment. Any parent, punishing the child, him feels with.

A judge never forgives. A court and forgiveness is a process, renders disservice to you, who mixes up them.

If so want to forgive guilty — who will forgive you for him.

Podnebesnaya does not cost that.

Podnebesnaya does not cost that, to have it one. Easily to divide a little benefit with helpers. Hardness to divide large. But even if it was succeeded to get him in a reward: that, to leave him only to itself does not cost, not partaken with those, who helped to get him.

You very need, that gave help you in some question. you about it talk and show it the helpers. They accept your request seriously — but as differently! And business moves. But as a positive result is approached, other already anxieties overcome you as though.