The authentic sanctioning leans
That told the truth, stimulation must be dissociated from it. It is impossible to praise, leaning against words that, who praise. It is impossible to scold, leaning against words that who praise. It is impossible to tell, leaning against words that, who swear at. It is possible only friendly to join in with selfpraise or to the self-criticism of man. The authentic sanctioning leans on more durable and more wide basis: on the matters of man, but not on his words. Separation of own reaction on a true and lie, separation in time. Sila is in indifference. In readiness without emotions to hear out any true. To make decision not then, when it is possible, and then when it already will be required. To accept from the future, but not from the pas. Not because, but for that that.
Talk at first, and then do
A man works way in new, unexplored at first an idea, then by a word, then by business.
He planned something good, whatever did before. Thinks over a project. On some stage he wants to be divided the project with anybody. To discuss. To discuss on the whole, well and also — and the first steps.
If to this business to begin, then from what it is possible it would be to begin? And if this first steps look the real, then why and not to make attempt?! From words to business.
He planned something bad. But the this bad is incarnated in business as well as good — not passing the stage of talking, discussions. Here here and most easy to stop a man.
If to connive words — will pass and to business. It will happen certainly, maybe, that from him already and does not depend. As if slightly began to slide overice under a mountain. To stop does not can already, but yet any, standing firmly, can hold him and retain. And will gather speed — make attempt, stop!
Pay regard to words. Especially on jokes. Breaks through a joke itself wrong business road. Searches resistance. And if it is not — goes along. Stop with a joke a joke.
Does not want, that did, not allow to talk about it.
Put a plan more dangerous. Project a plan is more dangerous. Discussion a project is more dangerous. Word a discussion is more dangerous. Joke a word is more dangerous. Look a joke is more dangerous. Passing absence of support — a look is more dangerous.
What business is tucked away deeper — that it is more dangerous.
Two friend worked in a garden.
Two friend hoed earth. Suddenly the hoe of one of them hitted something hard. He heaved up the piece of gold and cast aside it as a simple tile. They continued to work farther.
Two friend sat in a garden on mats and read books. Suddenly the wagon of noble grandee passed by. One of them rose and looked it after. Then other moved away the mat aside and said:
— You to me no longer friend!
They did not have divergence in a look to gold, on riches. They know more high values. And in respect of test glory and respect in society — they appeared for different sides. That, who moved away a mat, did not begin to wait for a that year, day and hour, when his friend, not surviving this test, him will betray. It is better to divide now.
As if food already began to deteriorate, am it already is not desirable, and to throw out it is yet pitiful. Will wait, when finally spoilt and not pitifully it will be to throw out? It is the best strategy?
That is why not look, not smile, not joke, a not word can not pass without trace. Maybe, that it is beyond measure rigorisms to each other. And it is possible to say that gladness of conforming to these high requirements is great. Radost', given not each.
Radost' of strong senses, bear clean paints.
And I am a rad for you reader, if life your complimented with understanding of these clean colors. If it is not is not your guilt.
In general this book much kinder, than seems on the face of it.