Retain harm, and move a benefit.

If to retain a benefit — will turn out badly. To retain a benefit means to offend a benefit, if a man will not change the opinion will not change position. With suspicion a man will behave to the offered benefit.

You asked something from a man and he said no you. If you will ask him to confirm the refuse, he grant and will confirm. But you will ask him to confirm, and in case that him will ask, how indeed he said no you, other man. And will promise some benefit for such confirmation, but, perhaps, thoughtful. It will not please him, him it will seem to that him try to retain on his position by a benefit. He will want to leave however after itself freedom of actions, including possibility not to confirm the refuse to you. Not confirmation of refuse is a yet not consent, but beginning of way to him! The best method to retain a man in place, on his position, specifying him on harm of abandoning of position, on the danger of the first steps: carefully, it is painted! Does not move, and then will break up! Where you, there such is created now!

And moving a man is better a benefit. you took him by a hand and talk softly: will go with me, please! In most cases even unknown man understanding nothing however will do a few steps after you. And if you, opposite, will push him and talk — go away, please, it is here impossible to stand! His first motions will be resistance to you. For this reason people, unfortunately, are receptive to the graft. But hate blackmail and try to the last possibility to be not added him.

Different family soldiery traps are built on these considering. If an opponent shows you a benefit, so, wants, that you moved in its direction. If threatens, so, wants, what you remained in place.

But the best from benefits is possibility to see a way. A man can give up everything and move to this benefit, in a modest student. Remaining in place can bring a benefit, but already not this.

Boss, by a not guest.

Boss, by a not guest. Owner that, who can let to enter, and can not settle. Who can question a guest. Whoever needs local explorers in the house. Who keeps reserves of meal and food, with the supply of weapon. Who had rest to meeting with a guest.

Guest that, who must ask permission to enter. And if will enter not asking, can meet the most different reception. Who badly knows this house and needs local explorer. Who keeps such reserves which took with itself only. Who went a large way needs rest. Who is forced to answer on the questions of owner, if does not want with him to fall out.

Boss, but not by a guest.

I do not go, and to me go.

I rested, wait tired.

I am replete and wait hungry.

After me there is a mountain of knowledge of locality and terms, after them bog of ignorance.

I have a benefit, and coming them for it to fight. Choosing time and venue, aim to appear, on possibility, in a role of owner: I need him, but not he to me — let to me and will come!

And if he needs me: well, I will drive up to you, when comfortably you?

The equal meet more frequent on neutral territory.