Think not only about that, how it will be good, if you will win. But about that, how preeminently an opponent will be won over. That means a defeat for him, and what road he to him will go off on. Eta a road for him must be comfortable, comfort or, at the worst, acceptable on every stage. Ideally, it is a carpet path with the cup of coffee on an end.

If opponent in despair and thinks itself no to other technology, except for a fight, him hardness to win over. To rotin him technology of defeat — here task. Not Enough to insist on that a man acknowledged that said a true. It is necessary to do such confession acceptable to him. To help him to save a person. To allow and at a loss to save self-esteem and hope on respect other.

If someone said it is not, before to insist on the change of answer it is necessary to look after about that, to report some additional circumstances. That he could say: so it is other business, what you did not talk before! Otherwise and will want to change the opinion, and it will be uncomfortably.

An anxiety about an opponent supposes the distinct picture of all stages of his defeat. About that everybody was as though not worse previous, but all together conduced to the defeat. Going after the escaping armed opponent it is impossible to pursue him too assertively. Otherwise will turn around and will stand to death.

It is impossible and to rotin a smile, that victory already after you. Will remember suddenly otherwise: I did not yet say «yes»! I yet gave no consent! And it will be necessary to begin everything at first, it will be now more difficult only.

Discuss with him circumstances future, after his defeat, life, stepping back so far from the real moment in the future, that he agreed to conduct such discussion.

A look from the future prepares .

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Fight for the pas and future

A fight on war is difficult.

A fight is most aimless for the pas. Maximum it revenge. Revenge is an attempt to change the pas. But him will not change. It is possible to change only in the imagination. Therefore revenge is the hidden form of madness. Inclined to to sweep an opponent can not be in right mind and in other questions. All decisions «because» is a weak form to sweep. To take revenge on not necessarily to the people. Maybe, to the things, zoons, weather. A small child, deprived yet sensible sense and children farther, can allude to revenge as on reason even in the case when this revenge followed before act: what he pushed me! And pushed then, after your blow! And as hardness to explain to the small child a defect in his aggressive logic, so hardness is and to retain the grown man from to sweep. From a desire to influence on the pas.

Man, not having a way, so or differently, rarer or more frequent, not in a tune from time. However be at odds with time there is a child. Life is a method of code of law of the time released on it. And that for him at first, and that then, and does a man a man, such as he is.